How To Flirt With a Girl Over Text?

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Text flirting is not just another form of flirting, it can help you land the first phone call, the first date or maybe the girl in your living room the very same night, depending on how skilled you are. Flirting over text is like playing chess, the only difference is that you want to sleep with your enemy at the end. If you are skilled at flirting in general, then text flirting is a blast. If you get frustrated because the girl doesn’t text you back, doesn’t initiate conversations, acts cold, flakes out and etc, then these symptoms could very well be a result of some rookie mistakes. In that case you should check out my The Do’s and Don’ts of Text Flirting article.

Let’s assume you are not a complete amateur at flirting in general, here are some tips that really helped me with my text game.

However, if you are an amateur, Click Here to find out step-by-step text messages to send from these pros.


The Funny Guy

Even though this is a no-brainer, I have seen guys either be extremely boring or extremely cheesy with their flirty texts. The prettier the girl is, the more guys want to play it safe or impress her with their awesome pick up lines. The harder you try the cornier you are, you should have learned that in High School. Guys forget to put a nice little smile on the girl’s face. If you can make a girl smile, make her get away from reality, her boring and stressful life even for a few seconds, you will go a long way. Jersey Shore, Superbad, NFL, theater and etc all exist for a reason – they help you get away from your reality and forget about your problems for a little bit.

It’s okay if you are not the comedian in your social circle. You can always develop the skill like everything else. Watch stand ups, sitcoms, funny movies, read books and learn the basics such as delivery, timing, expectation vs reality, your audience, comebacks and etc. This is going to take some time but if you need something to help you right now, ready my article Examples of Flirty Texts by Clicking Here.
The bottom line is you need to develop this skill to be successful in the social areas of your life, specially when it comes to scoring with a girl.

Practice on Instant Messengers

Have you ever thought of a killer reply three seconds after you sent your text message to the girl, that you spent half an hour on? I know I have. One way to think quick on your feet is by chatting online on Gmail chat, Facebook chat, AOL and etc. If you have some female friends, awesome. It doesn’t have to be a girl, it could be your guy friend(Just don’t be hitting on your guy friend, that will raise a lot of questions LOL) If you are talking to your guy friend, try to bring up what he is interested in, make him laugh with some funny replies.

Using Emoticons In Your Text Messages

Women are emotional creatures and portraying emotions via text messaging is essential. I know in the guy world, it’s not cool to text Emoticons to another guy. On the other hand, if you want success with text flirting, you need to portray the right emotion at the right time. Emoticons also help a lot with misinterpretation. Let’s say you send a teasing text message to a girl. In order to display that you actually are teasing her and not being rude, you will use a winky face. There are so many of them out there these days, so I mainly stick to the most popular ones. If you want to use some other ones, make sure you know what they mean, so the text message doesn’t backfire.

The Push/Pull Technique

Do you know what the best thing about texting is? The wait. The longer you wait to reply to the text message, the more attraction you build. If she asked you a question, replying instantly won’t do much harm but won’t do much good either. This doesn’t mean you always wait two hours when replying. Sometimes reply to text messages fairly quickly and sometimes wait half an hour or so, always mix it up. You want to make her chase you. You want to come across as a guy with a life, who is spontaneous and unpredictable.  People don’t value things they can get easily. If she figures you out with a couple of text messages, she will lose interest fairly quickly.

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